I have heard it said that “Forgiveness requires more than the intellectual commitment to do so.”

Years of seeking a definition that I can work with,  I think I this is IT.

“Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You’re done. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you want to have lunch with the person. If you keep hitting back, you stay trapped in the nightmare…”

― Anne Lamott, Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith




Much Love,
Magda Gee

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Author: Magda Gee

I am in a program of recovery for those whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking, drug use, mental illness. I am new to the experiences of faith and hope and courage, qualities absent for me in proximity to my family. No Contact has been the way to keep safe from diminishing words and actions directed at me. I think I have listened for the last time to how I deserve mistreatment. By holding out for something more wholesome and loving, I have been both banished and demanded to return. I prefer serenity to proximity. I will continue with my program and faith in the best possible outcome, so long as I do my part-- to stalk GOD as if my life depends on it.

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Tundra Woman
“Forgiveness” never even showed up on my radar. It was and remains a non factor in my life and my decision to terminate the relationship with my biological Mugger. All together now, the Forgiveness Police among you, inhale in shocked displeasure at the obvious taint on your purity I’m about to bring to your attention It’s no use appealing to common sense, reality or genuine human experience so here’s the Annotated Version that doesn’t make the meme rounds on social media: No beautiful vistas, no flowers, no “deep meaning” no attempt to pretend to proffer “timeless wisdom.” I don’t live… Read more »