October 8, 2026 - Wholesome Badass: A Work in Progress

Wholesome Badass girl draws a new relational blueprint based on nurturing, honest communication, accountability, and trust, while discarding an old blueprint of scapegoating, manipulation, and emotional neglect.

The Caller Was Inside the House

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The people I relied on for protection were the same people I needed protection from. They were also the ones teaching lil baby Magda about herself, relationships, and the world. And so she gravitated toward relational patterns imprinted on her

Wholesome Badass girl imagines herself drawing a winding path toward a yellow sunrise beneath a calming blue sky.

Who am I when my life is no longer organized around survival?

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1. Identity — Who am I without the struggle? 2. Agency — The difference between reacting and initiating 3. The nervous system — When peace is unfamiliar 4. Desire — Discovering what I actually want 5. Dignity — Beyond defending