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Learning to align my life with humility, courage, mercy, and faith, rather than the agendas around me or the reactions they provoke within me.

Family Scapegoating & Golden Child Dynamics

When the Story About You Outranks What Actually Happened

How a Narrative Protects Predatory Behavior The Branding Becomes the Lens I am recognizing something in real time: the story about someone can matter more than what they actually say…

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August 30, 2026
Read more about the article When You’re Blamed for How Someone Treats You
They didn’t burn witches. They burned women.
Highly Sensing Person / Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

When You’re Blamed for How Someone Treats You

The Alchemy of the Unexitable Loop What happens when someone hurts you, then first denies then explains their behavior as a consequence of your personality? Literally.... a person repeatedly blames you…

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August 30, 2026
Read more about the article When Your Reaction Becomes More Important Than What Happened
A prayer for openness, alignment, and a new way forward.
Family Scapegoating & Golden Child Dynamics

When Your Reaction Becomes More Important Than What Happened

I came into the family as the youngest, with a tightly wound nervous system and a way of taking in the world that was unusually sensitive—to sensory and emotional input,…

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August 26, 2026
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Family Scapegoating & Golden Child Dynamics

When Covert Bullying Makes You Look Like the Unstable One

Whatever is said or believed about me does not change what was said and done. I keep coming back to the possibility that the golden child can become a protected…

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August 25, 2026
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