Something does not become untrue because somebody more influential tells the story differently. I have spent a lot of my life ateempting to reconcile the version of events that prevailed…
I've been thinking about my ability to participate safely in relationships which are non-essential and technically intended as sources of safe, healthy connection. Some discord is guaranteed. But sustained and…
A person can know something experientially long before they can articulate it. They might know, for example, “After X is upset with me, I end up confused. I initiate communication thinking…
For more than 40 years, I didn't really know how to exist inside a relationship unless I was the broken one, bowing in reliance to anyone gracious enough to let…