Personal reflections on the painful experience of being divided from my children, and the complex family dynamics, grief, and confusion of ongoing loss.
Loving the Hologram: A Season of Letting Go This season—honestly, my entire life—has been one of loss and unraveling. And I feel self‑conscious about that, because in a world low…
When “Being Right” Replaces Being Human On Saturdays, I meet with a small group of politically engaged people, holding signs aimed at sparking awareness. My sign reads: “Dignity for All.”…
When Repair Is Impossible, So Is Security I heard it said today—and I’ve also read it—that secure attachment can only exist where people can be counted on to go back…
How Contempt Gets Modeled and Inherited What happens when alignment with one parent supports the rejection of the other? What I’m experiencing with my son doesn’t feel like a sudden…