Read more about the article The Irony of Weaponized Concern
Real consideration is quiet. Engineered concern requires an audience. We shouldn't confuse a calculated performance with a good deed.

The Irony of Weaponized Concern

The Reality of Gossip Discussing the details of someone else’s life—their hardships, their choices, or how they live—is a fundamentally unwholesome practice. Gossip happens, and we can be honest about…

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Read more about the article The Cost of Challenging Toxic Systems
For a long time, I thought if I could just change enough, perform enough, or "get different" enough, the damaging dynamics around me would finally stop. I took on the blame because it was the only script I was handed. But that is the exact mechanism of shame. It does a fantastic job of making us shrink, but it has a zero percent success rate at actually healing us.

The Cost of Challenging Toxic Systems

The Sovereignty Tax (My Refusal to Bleed) I am 57 years old, and I am only just now learning the practices of sovereignty and radical neutrality. Until recently, no one…

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