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Two-panel illustration showing a woman suggesting someone may eventually be good enough, then claiming she wants reconciliation while insisting the other person is entirely responsible for the conflict.

Maybe One Day You’ll Be Worthy

November 1, 2026 No Comments

There’s a deviant cruelty in having it said that you “got what you deserved.” Who even thinks like that? (Clears throat.) When I question the unequal terms of a relationship or ask for mutual consideration, the focus shifts from my

A crowned man sits on a throne, rewarding a favored woman with flowers while directing another woman toward a dangerous trap labeled “Consequences.” The image illustrates favoritism, othering, and emotional violence.

When Discomfort Is Handled as Provocation

October 22, 2026 No Comments

I’m recognizing a pattern in the personality type I’ve come to call The Archetype: disproportionate retaliation in response to discomfort. There is a swift intolerance for anything or anyone that appears to interfere with their ideas, preferences, plans, comfort, or agenda.