For me, the crushing depression and anxiety engineered by the system kept stuck in survival mod.  Thus never able to self actualize. See Maslow’s Hierarchy.

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For anyone who has ever mistaken being pursued for being valued — you weren’t chosen. You were targeted. I wish I had known this sooner.

The Season of Losing What I Thought I Needed

Loving the Hologram: A Season of Letting Go This season—honestly, my entire life—has been one of loss and unraveling. And I feel self‑conscious about that, because in a world low…

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Read more about the article When a Child Learns to Reject a Parent
Triangulation occurs when communication is routed through others instead of addressed directly, creating confusion, loyalty conflicts, and distance.

When a Child Learns to Reject a Parent

How Contempt Gets Modeled and Inherited What happens when alignment with one parent supports the rejection of the other? What I’m experiencing with my son doesn’t feel like a sudden…

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