When You’re Blamed for How Someone Treats You
The Alchemy of the Unexitable Loop What happens when someone hurts you, then first denies then explains their behavior as a consequence of your personality? Literally.... a person repeatedly blames you…
The Alchemy of the Unexitable Loop What happens when someone hurts you, then first denies then explains their behavior as a consequence of your personality? Literally.... a person repeatedly blames you…
A person can know something experientially long before they can articulate it. They might know, for example, “After X is upset with me, I end up confused. I initiate communication thinking…
Memory Memory can be unreliable. Interpretation certainly is. Two people can experience the same interaction and leave with very different narratives about what happened. What feels more meaningful to me…
The Reality of Gossip Discussing the details of someone else’s life—their hardships, their choices, or how they live—is a fundamentally unwholesome practice. Gossip happens, and we can be honest about…