Month: August 2020

My first steps were on eggshells photo text meme

uniformity v. solidarity

“You are either in agreement with (like) us or against us.” That mentality is the ancestral curse I am working to crush, one day at a

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Saying how you feel or what you need will never ruin a healthy connection.

Pain

My grandmother visited my childhood home a few times a year and I alllllwaaaays looked forward to her arrival. She was radiant, popular, and very

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If I say no to someone and they get angry, it does not mean I should have said yes.

What is Schadenfreude?

Though I am intimately familiar with the energy and attitudes I’ve always identified in the “serves you right” types, I only just discovered the term Schadenfreude.

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