When “What Are You So Angry/Upset About?” Isn’t Actually Concern February 1, 2026 No Comments I’m finally recognizing how validity gets measured not necessarily by the truth of what’s said, but by the composure of the person saying it. My Read More
Scapegoating and the Cost of Speaking Up January 31, 2026 No Comments The Truth That Cannot Be Erased For over a decade, this space has been my witness. For a multitude of reasons, outside of what has Read More
When Difference Is Treated as Defiance November 4, 2025 No Comments When “Being Right” Replaces Being Human On Saturdays, I meet with a small group of politically engaged people, holding signs aimed at sparking awareness. My Read More
Repair Avoidance Isn’t Conflict Avoidance September 18, 2025 No Comments When Repair Is Impossible, So Is Security I heard it said today—and I’ve also read it—that secure attachment can only exist where people can be Read More