When Your Sensitivity Is Framed as the Problem September 15, 2026 No Comments In my family of origin, and then quite unsurprisingly in the marriage I chose, I re-enacted the familiar pattern. I accepted the charge for all Read More
Rattle the Cage, Judge the Reaction September 14, 2026 No Comments If I can rattle your cage and then stand beside your reaction looking calm and reasonable, I can create a defining contrast: you unstable; me Read More
When Influence Obscures The Facts August 30, 2026 No Comments How a Narrative Protects Predatory Behavior The Branding Becomes the Lens I am recognizing something in real time: the story about someone can matter more Read More
When Harm Wears a Virtuous Mask August 25, 2026 No Comments Whatever is said or believed about me does not change what was said and done. I keep coming back to the possibility that the golden Read More