Category: Family Scapegoating & Golden Child Dynamics

Dear Narcissist....From Everyone YOu Hurt

How Emotional Abuse Maintains Power

March 11, 2022 No Comments

The House Rules I am never wrong. Never out of line. Never erring in judgment. Never lacking in kindness, patience, or grace. It is unwise

It is really hard to heal from things you were not supposed to talk about. Notes From Your Therapist

Narcissists Seek Validation -Not Help

September 26, 2021 No Comments

So, I find it important to note that in my obsessvie reading and information seeking re: narcissitic abuse, or really any kind of trauma, the

Trying to hurt me by bringing up my past is like trying to rob my old house. I nolonger live there. That aint my stuff.

Why I No Longer Engage With Passive-Aggressive ConflictToday v. Yesterday

June 28, 2021 No Comments

When I choose to confront something happening right now—something I see as worth addressing—and someone tries to shut me down by dragging the conversation into

Big Shot

February 8, 2021 No Comments

In Nothing Like I imagined, Mindy Kaling shares her delicious confession about an attempt to be a Big Shot. While out with her celeb buddy