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The Difference Between Abuse and Torture

Torture—unlike abuse, which is often spontaneous and unintentional, though still scarring—is premeditated. It is designed to methodically dismantle a person’s identity and humanity. To destroy safety. To diminish hope for connection and belonging.

By this definition, our country has deliberately legislated, legalized, and tolerated the systematic torture and terror of our Black brothers and sisters.

When the very people entrusted to protect are also empowered to harm, that is terrorism. Lawmakers. Government officials. Judges. Police officers. Prison guards. Systems, not accidents.

Patrisse Khan-Cullors articulated this definition of torture, illuminating what has been designed and prescribed—especially for the poorest and most vulnerable Black people in this country. Naming it clearly matters.

I will continue learning from human rights activists of color. Unlearning racism is a necessary layer of my spiritual recovery. I have revisited White Fragility and The New Jim Crow, and am finishing When They Call You a Terrorist. Each one expands my understanding of what was intentionally hidden, minimized, or denied.

Learning is a responsibility.

What are you doing to learn more about and support anti-racism? Or choosing not to?

Magda Gee

I am in a program of recovery for those whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking, drug use, mental illness. I am newly learning faith, hope, and courage, practices not witnessed by me, in my childhood, with my family. Sadly, No Contact, as a last resort, is how I keep safe from diminishing words and actions directed at me. I think I have listened for the last time to how I deserve mistreatment. By holding out for something more wholesome and loving, I have been both banished and demanded to return. I prefer serenity to proximity. I will continue with my program and faith in the best possible outcome, so long as I do my part-- to stalk GOD as if my life depends on it.