Tag: relationship patterns

Alt text: Wholesome Badass girl speaking with Saint Peter. She says, “But I would not do as they liked,” and he replies, “You broke the cycle, not the law.”

Your Behavior Defines You – Not Me

September 3, 2026 No Comments

Somewhere along the way, a practice took hold: metabolizing what other people believed, said, or did as information about me rather than data about them.

Quote graphic reading, “How safe is a connection that can only exist in the absence of friction?” beside two coffee cups at a table.

Why Can’t We Ever Resolve Anything?

August 16, 2026 No Comments

I’ve been thinking about my ability to participate safely in relationships which are non-essential and technically intended as sources of safe, healthy connection. Some discord

One healthy green tree standing in the middle of a forest of dead trees beneath the quote, “A peak is a moment. A pattern is information.”

The Truth Is in the Pattern

August 2, 2026 No Comments

Sheesh. How many more times will I have to navigate this particular circuit before I have learned everything I can from it? The turth is