When Harm Wears a Virtuous Mask August 25, 2026 No Comments Whatever is said or believed about me does not change what was said and done. I keep coming back to the possibility that the golden Read More
When A Family Attack the Scapegoat for Trying to Repair the Relationship August 23, 2026 No Comments Ten years ago, around my son’s birthday, I was already trying to name something I did not yet fully understand. I sent my original email Read More
When Family Betrayal Pulls Young Children Into the Middle August 22, 2026 No Comments At a very tense Mother’s Day gathering in 2016, I learned that my niece’s graduation was less than four weeks away and on the same Read More
Gaslighting, Blame-Shifting, and the Absence of Repair August 13, 2026 No Comments A person can know something experientially long before they can articulate it. They might know, for example, “After X is upset with me, I end up Read More