Love is Compromise–Not Submission
In our family, we have each been struggling with near constant unmet needs, and so we gathered around our lil table and are in agreement; we must work together- rather than begging,…
Being Heard v. Being Erased
In my upbringing I learned all about shutting down--trying to erase you or at the very least, make you feel erased when you differed from, or maybe even were similar to me, in ways that illuminated my imperfection wrongness.…
Valentines Day Perfection- Until….
Nearing the end of a beautiful Valentines's Day with my sweetheart, I posted this Vlog to Facebook in an effort to share something light and fun as I have been advised…
Sadness- Part of the Healing Process
Today, I am deep into feeling, owning and healing from my tough beginnings in this world. My heart is open. And I am welcoming the new experiences with love, kindness…