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Author: Magda Gee

I am in a program of recovery for those whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking, drug use, mental illness. I am newly learning faith, hope, and courage, practices not witnessed by me, in my childhood, with my family. Sadly, No Contact, as a last resort, is how I keep safe from diminishing words and actions directed at me. I think I have listened for the last time to how I deserve mistreatment. By holding out for something more wholesome and loving, I have been both banished and demanded to return. I prefer serenity to proximity. I will continue with my program and faith in the best possible outcome, so long as I do my part-- to stalk GOD as if my life depends on it.
New Love- Old Wounds
Musings

New Love- Old Wounds

Posted on March 12, 2023March 15, 2023 by Magda Gee

Still enjoying the magic of every other week in the mountains with my new friend, and as we become more familiar and relaxed with each…

It Is Like This
Musings

It Is Like This

Posted on February 12, 2023February 13, 2023 by Magda Gee

It Is Like this On my drives to and from the mountains to visit my new “friend”, the radio signal/reception fades in and out. Shuffling…

Held and  Free
Musings

Held and Free

Posted on December 31, 2022January 1, 2023 by Magda Gee

“A whole family is one in which each member can bring her full self to the table knowing that she will always be both held and…

Scapegoating- How it begins
Musings

Scapegoating- How it begins

Posted on December 24, 2022December 31, 2022 by Magda Gee

“Any time a small child gets labeled and referred to by a parent as too much or bad, that child/baby is actually being handed the…

AMEN(ds)
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AMEN(ds)

Posted on December 17, 2022December 21, 2022 by Magda Gee

While there is no right way to do a wrong thing, there are countless wrong ways to do a right thing. Today, I am keenly…

Cycles of Healing
Musings

Cycles of Healing

Posted on November 11, 2022November 12, 2022 by Magda Gee

I would not have chosen the things which have harmed me but am grateful and proud of how I am allowing myself to be shaped…

A Different Kind Of Sex
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A Different Kind Of Sex

Posted on August 9, 2022August 11, 2022 by Magda Gee

So, before divorce and finally sweet Greg, I had experienced sex as an act necessary to make a relationship less shitty (or as a thing…

Dog Whistling
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Dog Whistling

Posted on August 6, 2022December 24, 2022 by Magda Gee

So one of my sons has some serious skills when it comes to dog whistling and gaslighting and boy am I grateful I get to…

My First Bullies
Musings

My First Bullies

Posted on August 5, 2022August 6, 2022 by Magda Gee

Who in your life held you in unconditional high regard and rooted for you, ride or die 24-7-365? Who in your life consistently instilled messages…

Are you seriously still talking about it?
Musings

Are you seriously still talking about it?

Posted on July 27, 2022July 27, 2022 by Magda Gee

I came to view punishment and shame as logical/natural consequences to being different displeasing. Great and collective effort was dedicated to reducing me to a…

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  • AMEN(ds) December 17, 2022
  • Cycles of Healing November 11, 2022
  • A Different Kind Of Sex August 9, 2022
  • Dog Whistling August 6, 2022
  • My First Bullies August 5, 2022
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