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Author: Magda Gee

I am in a program of recovery for those whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking, drug use, mental illness. I am newly learning faith, hope, and courage, practices not witnessed by me, in my childhood, with my family. Sadly, No Contact, as a last resort, is how I keep safe from diminishing words and actions directed at me. I think I have listened for the last time to how I deserve mistreatment. By holding out for something more wholesome and loving, I have been both banished and demanded to return. I prefer serenity to proximity. I will continue with my program and faith in the best possible outcome, so long as I do my part-- to stalk GOD as if my life depends on it.
Holding On– But also letting go
Musings

Holding On– But also letting go

Posted on November 5, 2023November 5, 2023 by Magda Gee

I suspect that I am the only one in my entire lineage (and also the lineage of the person I married and divorced)— able and…

Goals, Ambition, Mental Health
Musings

Goals, Ambition, Mental Health

Posted on October 14, 2023December 1, 2023 by Magda Gee

I’ve been thinking lately about life in survival mode, how it prevented me from setting and working toward/achieving goals. And turns out: Goal achievement plays…

Acceptance

How Do I Handle This?

Posted on October 5, 2023October 5, 2023 by Magda Gee

The one thing I have most needed to know how to handle, is myself.  I am finally learning to do this– with love and compassion.…

Musings

Trojan Horse(repost from 2017)

Posted on September 26, 2023October 16, 2023 by Magda Gee

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Musings

The Pain We Do Not Heal(re-post from 2018)

Posted on August 24, 2023August 24, 2023 by Magda Gee

Recovery has been a wildly unpopular choice—quite agitating to those threatened by the idea that there is something wrong—other than only my existence.  My healing…

Musings

If you can’t convince them, confuse them(re-post)

Posted on August 22, 2023August 22, 2023 by Magda Gee

In between wrapping gifts and singing along to Country Christmas, I am taken down by the grief of my sister and my mother, the reality…

A Different Kind Of Sex(re-post)
Musings

A Different Kind Of Sex(re-post)

Posted on August 22, 2023August 22, 2023 by Magda Gee

So, before divorce and finally sweet Greg, I had experienced sex as an act necessary to make a relationship less shitty (or as a thing…

Public Service Announcement
Musings

Public Service Announcement

Posted on August 1, 2023August 21, 2023 by Magda Gee

So, in recovery, I get to practice not telling people about themselves, under any circumstance, with the exception of my children. This, I can not…

Shame and Guilt and Fear
Musings

Shame and Guilt and Fear

Posted on July 29, 2023July 30, 2023 by Magda Gee

Shame and Guilt and Fear for openly wanting or needing more or different from what is being provided…. It never ends. I waited days to…

Perspectives
Musings

Perspectives

Posted on July 29, 2023July 30, 2023 by Magda Gee

Schema, perspective, experience, understanding…shit.  WOW. My younger son and I differ in so many beautiful ways, and also some difficult ones. Either way, he is…

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Recent Posts

  • Holding On– But also letting go November 5, 2023
  • Goals, Ambition, Mental Health October 14, 2023
  • How Do I Handle This? October 5, 2023
  • Trojan Horse(repost from 2017) September 26, 2023
  • The Pain We Do Not Heal(re-post from 2018) August 24, 2023
  • If you can’t convince them, confuse them(re-post) August 22, 2023
  • A Different Kind Of Sex(re-post) August 22, 2023
  • Public Service Announcement August 1, 2023
  • Shame and Guilt and Fear July 29, 2023
  • Perspectives July 29, 2023

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