It was communicated collectively and consistently to me, that who I was (am) is THE problem. In my 40s, I found a program of recovery to…
Month: April 2020
Having believed that “I. Am. THE. Problem”– the designated cause for other people’s shame, pain, hostile silence, cruel words, and overall mental health could only be…
So, an Instagram Ad for a pore vacuum appeared in my feed…eeew gross, right?–What kind of dirty loser needs to vacuum their pores…only the most…
One of the most amazing aspects of life with Sweet Greg is our partnership as equals, our collaboration, working as a team, though often I…
For much of my life I treasured, even sought, the opportunity to align with one person (squee –closeness, right?) against another for any reason at all–…
You’ve got to be taught, to hate and fearYou’ve got to be taught from year to yearIt’s got to be drummed in your dear little…
In my family of origin, people seemed to get ranked by intellect and like mindedness (or different mindedness). There were decent people(worthy of kindness and respect) —…
Most of us (if only a little) are impressed by fine clothes, cars, homes, overall attractiveness, and status. -Totally normal to unconsciously attach meaning to what…
My life is filled with terrible choices, ugly truths, and failed relationships. Those things do not define me and cannot be used to shame or diminish…