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Author: Magda Gee

I am in a program of recovery for those whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking, drug use, mental illness. I am newly learning faith, hope, and courage, practices not witnessed by me, in my childhood, with my family. Sadly, No Contact, as a last resort, is how I keep safe from diminishing words and actions directed at me. I think I have listened for the last time to how I deserve mistreatment. By holding out for something more wholesome and loving, I have been both banished and demanded to return. I prefer serenity to proximity. I will continue with my program and faith in the best possible outcome, so long as I do my part-- to stalk GOD as if my life depends on it.
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Amazing Grace

Posted on July 14, 2022July 15, 2022 by Magda Gee

I created this blog to discover(through reflection an sharing) and reclaim all of parts of myself which had been erased– or failed to develop as…

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Stuff that is important to me

Posted on July 14, 2022July 28, 2022 by Magda Gee

Love Enjoy Need My sons Tattoos Safe Solitude Sweet Greg Tacos Kindness Favorite(my bff) Tiramisu Safe Laughter Animals Books Safe Connection The Beach Yardwork Reading…

In healthy, healing, loving family systems…
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In healthy, healing, loving family systems…

Posted on July 11, 2022July 11, 2022 by Magda Gee

Ok, I have no experience within those kind of systems. My lived family expereince falls outside any of the categories of healthy, healing, loving. How…

She would never say it, but…
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She would never say it, but…

Posted on July 7, 2022July 11, 2022 by Magda Gee

My inability to authentically love and be good and loyal to you was proof only of the work I needed to do on myself. YOU…

Dear Maggie
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Dear Maggie

Posted on July 5, 2022July 7, 2022 by Magda Gee

My homework from therapy was to write a letter to myself of what I would want my mother to say to me, what I would…

July 4
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July 4

Posted on July 4, 2022July 6, 2022 by Magda Gee

In my family of origin and then later my mirror image marriage, assertive direct voicing of my own need, preference, or boundary was met with…

YOU ARE THE ONLY PROBLEM!!!
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YOU ARE THE ONLY PROBLEM!!!

Posted on June 12, 2022June 15, 2022 by Magda Gee

I am working to change learned & damaging behaviors and reactions for which I am always apologizing.  The work part means healing my wounds, which…

Things Learned
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Things Learned

Posted on May 30, 2022May 31, 2022 by Magda Gee

So it seems like juuuuusssst maybe the key to living a peaceful and meaningful existence- is in learning how to recover from difficult people, events,…

Blind Spots- We All Have Them
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Blind Spots- We All Have Them

Posted on May 29, 2022May 29, 2022 by Magda Gee

I cannot change my past, but I can allow myself to be changed by it.  In recovery, self-reflection and growth, for me, have each become…

Circling The Drain
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Circling The Drain

Posted on May 27, 2022May 31, 2022 by Magda Gee

The message was consistent, from my family of origin and in my marriage–that my experiences, needs, desires, concerns were invalid, inadmissible, troublesome. When (99.9% of…

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