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Before Recovery

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:September 9, 2020
Post category:Acceptance addiction dirty secrets Faith Mindful Parenting Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Trauma

Without recovery, I would still possess only the tools and beliefs of dysfunction; a fixed mindset with a Zero-sum mentality-- all conflicts resulting in a winner and a loser. Winning…

September 7

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:September 7, 2020
Post category:Acceptance addiction dirty secrets Faith Family Divider Intimacy Mindful Parenting Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Trauma Triangulation & Smear Campaigns

The deep seated angst of hoping and begging for peace and resolution- was relieved on the day which I received notice, by a lady whom I barely know, of my…

How I Used To Be

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 13, 2020
Post category:Acceptance dirty secrets Faith Mindful Parenting Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

For much of my life I treasured, even sought, the opportunity to align with one person (squee –closeness, right?) against another for any reason at all-- instant, cheap, and easy bond. I…

You’ve Got to Be Carefully Taught

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 10, 2020
Post category:Mindful Parenting Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

You've got to be taught, to hate and fearYou've got to be taught from year to yearIt's got to be drummed in your dear little earYou've got to be carefully…