Serves You Right
In my family of origin, people seemed to get ranked by intellect and like mindedness (or different mindedness). There were decent people(worthy of kindness and respect) -- highly credentialed and like minded.…
What is Wrong?
Deny, defend, deflect, dilute. I think it is natural to do these things when we are young and full of not knowing how to act right, particularly when we are…
To Struggle Is Human
I struggled mightily, since my earliest days. My formative experience strongly suggested my defectiveness as the cause, willfully imposing, as only an asshole would, on those whom I counted on to…
Raising a Modern-Day Knight
I left our last wrestling match feeling discouraged by my boys' attitudes and conduct, recognizing OUR need for guidance on how to be solid citizens, teammates, and contributors. I am…