Acceptance, Intimacy, Musings, Self-Love

Knowing and Using Our Power for Good

“I will not pretend to feel what I do not feel or to want what I do not want.  I can only learn to love myself if I am willing to learn who I am.(….)  I may not choose to act on those feelings or desires, but I won’t hide them from myself.” I will not …

Acceptance, Faith, Intimacy, Musings, Self-Love

Why Lie?

Just as some of us need more food, sleep, exercise, some of us require more time and space to recover from daily life in this overstimulating world.  So silly and exhausting to try and hide this from others.  Culturally, I guess, it is meant to be impressive, boasting self elected denial of our own needs and casually illuminating all …

Acceptance, Faith, Intimacy, Musings, Self-Love

But What if I am Gay?

Even saying “It is ok to be gay”, sounds arrogant. It is no different from saying it is ok to be black or tall or whatever. Thank goodness I am not gay.  I barely survived my life as a straight, educated, tall, thin, and white-ish woman.  Being gay in a family where I experienced no …

Intimacy, Musings, Self-Love

Let’s Talk About Sex-Please

Lately, it has become apparent that the conversations need to begin now.  Oh, how I want to impart healthy ideas about sex, bodies, love and intimacy.  But who am I?  What do I know?  Please join the conversation, spread the word.  Share your wisdom.  We must do better for our children.  With sex everywhere, we …

Faith, Intimacy, Musings, Self-Love

Happy People are Kind

At the terms “happy” and “friendly“, I cannot help but wince…no joke.  Parading as perpetually happy and friendly is a tool for perception management. The awkward Pollyanna posturing as easy going, free from difficult feelings, and unfortunate choices is just silly.  Happy is not a status. Me—I am happy when I am not required to pretend to be friendly. Hahaha I am neither social nor friendly-that …