As I watch and try to untangle and make sense of what is happening, I see how those who need to feel admired will frequently…
To the people who were older and on whom I relied to teach me about love, trust, and connection: The messaging that your encampment in…
From our first email(we met online),phone call, and meeting and all of the days that followed, I felt on edge and scared. And that was…
I see now how my ability to develop or pursue creativity or ambition of any sort, was stunted. I became crazed by my need for…
There are folks (those who are perfect and infallible- the blamers, accusers, hustlers, takers, the entitled, and delusional) unable to to say or think any…
I am never wrong, out of line, erring in judgment, lacking in kindness, patience, grace. It is ill advised to suggest otherwise. Nor am I…
So, the boys’ father is especially manic now that he has found a woman to claim a WE with. Whatever. On my boys’ weekends with…
As I continually have opportunities to PRACTICE detachment, using my recovery tools and skills, it feels only right to share tips (just the tip-hahaha) for…
As a child, everything, for me, became a source of shame, because nothing about our family,home,lives was normal or normalized. It was directly communicated that…
Oh the draining mindfuckery of dealing with someone married to their zero sum fixed mindset. The boys’ father literally can not feel significant/ almighty unless he…