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Welcome to McDonalds

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 24, 2017
Post category:Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

McDonald's Drive Through at 3:05 p.m. Attendant: Welcome to McDonalds. What can I get for you today? Me: Hi, May I please have a Southwest Salad with Grilled Chicken? Attendant: I…

What Would Lena Dunham Do?

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 22, 2017
Post category:Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

I had believed myself smart enough and fully capable of being treated with indifference bordering on disdain while maintaining a strong sense of self-respect. I was wrong also in thinking…

What Is Your Problem, Anyway?

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 21, 2017
Post category:Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

I loathe everything about you. But please don't leave before I banish you. And then-- you will wait faithfully until your return is requested. Oh- And lighten the fuck up. Ok? In…

I Love Jesus

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 20, 2017
Post category:Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Shane Claiborne’s amazing passage on “a third way” feels as inspiring as it does devastating. I am facing but not yet fully accepting the reality- that deep healing and connection are not values shared by my family of origin (FOO). Awareness without acceptance is hell 100% . (more…)