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Personal insights into how fractured communication, divided loyalties, and third party involvement can demage relationships and deepen family conflict.

Boundaries Are Hard

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:December 14, 2019
Post category:Trauma

I was raised by people who did not believe in apologies or examining of their behaviors, deeply rooted in a sense of perpetual rightness. Why change when you are already…

Claiming Responsibility

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:November 27, 2019
Post category:Addiction Mindful Parenting Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Trauma

Even, through my thirties, I had not learned to appropriately respond to harmful behaviors and words. Consistently, my uninformed and humiliating reactions stole the show, contributing greatly to the wreckage…

Thank You for Letting Me Go

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:November 18, 2019
Post category:Mindful Parenting Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Thanks for letting me go. Nearly 5 decades chasing or running from you--was no way to live and no longer how I understand and do love. Recovery teaches us--- Love is…

Cycle Breaking–and the Fall Out

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:November 8, 2019
Post category:Mindful Parenting Trauma

From Liz Earnshaw (Click anywhere on this post to read more from her): There is a phenomenon in families known as homeostasis (really, in any group of people , but…