Incongruous Behaviors
When possible, I now know to abstain from people whose words, actions, and proclaimed values are not aligned, those folks are not for me, even if we are married, have…
A tragic last resort when dealing with those who lack ability and willingness to self reflect, adjust and do the work of repair.
When possible, I now know to abstain from people whose words, actions, and proclaimed values are not aligned, those folks are not for me, even if we are married, have…
I struggled mightily, since my earliest days. My formative experience strongly suggested my defectiveness as the cause, willfully imposing, as only an asshole would, on those whom I counted on to…
I never tire of this reading and continue hoping that it may become a more common practice-- reaching for The Third Way-- in times of conflict . Doing so requires…
Last week as I relished a much-needed break from being used, taken advantage of, I was able to feel a smidge of compassion for the BF(boys' father). Mercy and compassion are…