Magda Gee, Author at Wholesome Badass

What Is Your Problem, Anyway?

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 21, 2017
Post category:Acceptance Faith Intimacy Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

I loathe everything about you. But please don't leave before I banish you. And then-- you will wait faithfully until your return is requested. Oh- And lighten the fuck up. Ok? In…

I Love Jesus

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 20, 2017
Post category:Acceptance Faith Intimacy Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Shane Claiborne’s amazing passage on “a third way” feels as inspiring as it does devastating. I am facing but not yet fully accepting the reality- that deep healing and connection are not values shared by my family of origin (FOO). Awareness without acceptance is hell 100% . (more…)

When Someone Shows You Who They Are

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 17, 2017
Post category:Acceptance Faith Intimacy Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

I have survived a lifetime of participation in my own neglect and rejection (and of course this behavior, when it was all I knew, is what I brought into the…

Let’s Roll-Grappling On and Off the Mats

Post author:Magda Gee
Post published:April 15, 2017
Post category:Acceptance Faith Intimacy Self-Love Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

I am missing the relief from my Brazilian Jiu Jitsu classes cancelled in honor of the holiday weekend. What happens in there is pure magic. The energy exchange is like nothing else I know. My need to roll today- is intense. The commitment to honor and humility on those mats is something close to♥ god and religion, for someone like me. (more…)