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There is a specific kind of cost attached to "playing the role." For a long time, I didn't know how to cope or express what I was experiencing, so I traded my peace for proximity. I stayed close, but at the expense of myself. Choosing to step away from that script is met with a different kind of price tag—it is unpopular. People do not always appreciate when you stop performing. But for the first time, this cost includes something I never had before: a light at the end of the tunnel. Growth is rarely convenient for the people who relied on your compliance. Choose the light anyway.

When Victory Demands Wreckage

The Architecture of Binary Victory I have intentionally been studying a particular archetype whose sense of rightness often seems to depend on projecting wrongness onto someone else. The Perceived Victimization…

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