Whoever gossips to you, will gossip about you. Gossip is saying behind their back what you would not say to their face. Flattery is saying to…
Month: March 2020
Have you known a person who can not see or admit when they have done harm by their words, choices, or actions? They tend to…
When possible, I now know to abstain from people whose words, actions, and proclaimed values are not aligned, those folks are not for me, even…
Reposting Tom Weston’s Five Rules of Being a Grown Up (steps to maintaining the status quo/rape culture/being pushed out to the margins) The Five Rules…
So interesting, I enjoyed a wonderful day off work all to myself and then, while relaxing with an audio book, I was reminded of the…
Who do you crave when you are in pain? Who unfailingly welcomes and solicits your unedited truth? Is it the perpetually smiling person dedicated to the…
I felt thrilled and a little proud-ish to have enrolled in a class at the local university. I was satisfied by my initiative, planning, execution, arranging…
Deny, defend, deflect, dilute. I think it is natural to do these things when we are young and full of not knowing how to act…
Last week, when we were notified of Ecoli in our water, our local schools and restaurants closed for 2 days and residents were under a…
If the opportunity to exchange goodbyes with my mother had been possible… I would have wept, thanked, apologized, forgiven–even if she remained silent and unreceptive.…