There are folks (those who are perfect and infallible- the blamers, accusers, hustlers, takers, the entitled, and delusional) unable to to say or think any of the following:
I made a mistake
I blew it
I was wrong, out of line
I was over reacting
I did not know–I was confused, scared, panicked, frustrated, feeling insecure
I misunderstood
I did not have all the information
I regret that I said/did that
What I said/did was hurtful
I do not know
I was unfair
I was unreasonable
I want to change and do better
I want to fix the damage and pain of my choices
I don’t want to always be right if it means you have to be wrong
There are things about myself I need help with and would like to change
My behavior was childish
My reaction was uninformed and dishonest
I need help with my destructive patterns
I do not want to continue in the way that I have
What do I need to do to make things right J
I would like to to get it right more than I need to be right.
Any 12 Step meeting can help, help to reparent and heal you, help with spiritual recovery, spiritual retrieval. On-line and in person. Meetings are anonymous. They help all– who are genuinely seeking change, transformation, healing.ilan Catherine Ghoneim Whitney Catherine Ghoneim Maggie Ghoneim
