Shame and Guilt and Fear
Shame and Guilt and Fear for openly wanting or needing more or different from what is being provided.... It never ends. I waited days to share with Favorite, the details…
Perspectives
Schema, perspective, experience, understanding...shit. WOW. My younger son and I differ in so many beautiful ways, and also some difficult ones. Either way, he is a great teacher and reminder…
Roles and Scripts
I am realizing why roles and scripts are of increasing interest to me, as I learn to wean myself from a recurring dynamic. I can now identify powerful, lifeshaping roles…
New Dynamics
Exploring dating/intimacy/relationships has been instrumental for me learning to know and understand myself. I am currently in "negotiations" for a power differential (the dynamic has a name, well defined rules,…