There are Some Good Things
We live in a nice, cute & safe home, which I can afford. My boys are able bodied and minded and excellent in many ways. They are creative, strong, bright,…
WIATF?
Imagine a struggling child (or really any person) whose parent, in no uncertain terms, communicates how: "Nobody can or wants to relate or even to help build a bridge to…
YOur work is not to change who you are. You are not too much. Word Porn
December
In the past month: **My boys' father met a woman, requiring him to stay out late on school nights (past 10 and even 11) leaving my boys home alone, at night…
On Fidelity
I long desperately (as I do most things) for my boys to desire and believe in the best for each other (in time, I get that ages 13-15 may be…
Good Input
How have I provided good input for my children? Who, in my child’s life is a reliable source for good input (consistently kind, considerate, trustworthy, loyal, present, protective, loving)…intentionally contributing to…
Connection & Purpose
I was raised on reduced by the continual messaging that my sole function was to make myself pleasing to those displeased by me…. To seek approval from the disapproving: TO…