The Truth is the Truth
I’ve been nursing a heavy ache in my heart — one that’s hard to put into words. It’s about my boys, how they see me, how they see their dad,…
Little Wins
I’ve shared before about the mantra I use to punish myself: “Winners keep winning, and losers keep losing.” Lately, life has felt like an uphill climb, made harder by a…
Breaking Generational Chains
I look back on the girls and women I’ve known, and the difference is clear. Those with parents who were intentional and loving —who made them feel welcome, safe, supported,…
The Art of Being Disposable
I had never been in a relationship with someone who both spoiled and protected me—who would fight for me, stand by my side, no matter what. Not my parents. Not…
Breaking the Cycle: A Miracle in Parenting
There are moments in parenting that bring me a deep sense of grief, moments when I know I’m falling short. I think about my boys, the love I have for…
This works great for non-optional dynamics. But when it is hurting your children, not so much. For rando irritants and disruptors, this is the only way to go.
Valentine’s Day: WTF
I didn’t expect to hear from my ex-husband on Valentine’s Day, especially after years of no contact. When his call came through, I assumed it was urgent—something about our sons.…
Between Invisible & Seen: Finding True Belonging
I am seeking healing in the form of a way to channel all of this old information and energy out of me, so that it doesn’t continue backfiring, making me…
Starved
When hunger has ravaged you, you’ll consume glass, whisper thanks, and await the next hunger’s call with trembling heart.
YOur work is not to change who you are. You are not too much. Word Porn
Love & Self-Worth: The Legacy of Our Caregivers
I’ve come to realize that the way we experience love—and how we later give and receive it—is often rooted in the care we were shown as children. Our caregivers, the…
Purpose, Belonging, Direction
I read a quote today which has me weeping. I'm weeping all the time anyway just about over every single song and everything reminding me of all the love I…