Things I struggle with
All Special Days---Mother's Day reminded me of the last time I sat with my mother and sister. I have a framed picture from that dinner, which I would like to smash…
All Special Days---Mother's Day reminded me of the last time I sat with my mother and sister. I have a framed picture from that dinner, which I would like to smash…
Things I am good at: Losing my shit Apologizing Wasting time Getting difficult stuff done Struggling with simple things because of associated historical feelings Helping Receiving Help Self Reflection Asking…
I am... According to MBTI, an ISFJ Enneagram Almost equally #8 and #4- considering doing the paid test @ https://ianmorgancron.com (UPDATE: I gave in to the paid the test and…
If the people to whom we looked, for love and protection, imposed traumatic shame for failed similarness and submission, that was a breach (by them) of their power. They were wrong. Period. Maybe…
It was communicated collectively and consistently to me, that who I was (am) is THE problem. In my 40s, I found a program of recovery to help me begin to heal…
Having believed that “I. Am. THE. Problem”-- the designated cause for other people's shame, pain, hostile silence, cruel words, and overall mental health could only be relieved through recovery and repair.…
So, an Instagram Ad for a pore vacuum appeared in my feed...eeew gross, right?--What kind of dirty loser needs to vacuum their pores...only the most unfortunate individual, obvi. IG algorithm…
One of the most amazing aspects of life with Sweet Greg is our partnership as equals, our collaboration, working as a team, though often I attempt to be his boss,…
For much of my life I treasured, even sought, the opportunity to align with one person (squee –closeness, right?) against another for any reason at all-- instant, cheap, and easy bond. I…
You've got to be taught, to hate and fearYou've got to be taught from year to yearIt's got to be drummed in your dear little earYou've got to be carefully…