Breaking the Cycle: A Miracle in Parenting
There are moments in parenting that bring me a deep sense of grief, moments when I know I’m falling short. I think about my boys, the love I have for…
This works great for non-optional dynamics. But when it is hurting your children, not so much. For rando irritants and disruptors, this is the only way to go.
Valentine’s Day: A Strange Surprise
I didn’t expect to hear from my ex-husband on Valentine’s Day, especially after years of no contact. When his call came through, I assumed it was urgent—something about our sons.…
Between Invisible & Seen: Finding True Belonging
I am seeking healing in the form of a way to channel all of this old information and energy out of me, so that it doesn’t continue backfiring, making me…
Starved
When hunger has ravaged you, you’ll consume glass, whisper thanks, and await the next hunger’s call with trembling heart.
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Love & Self-Worth: The Legacy of Our Caregivers
I’ve come to realize that the way we experience love—and how we later give and receive it—is often rooted in the care we were shown as children. Our caregivers, the…
Purpose, Belonging, Direction
I read a quote today which has me weeping. I'm weeping all the time anyway just about over every single song and everything reminding me of all the love I…
Just Shut Up
The messages from my family of origin were unmistakable: "We will not show empathy or understanding for your perspective. In response to what we perceive as distortions, we will only…
I’m not angry. I’m overwhelmed.
It’s painful to recall being scolded in shaming ways during overwhelming moments: "Why are you so angry? Why are you so defensive? Why are you yelling?" I percieved but could…
Accuracy of Language
I am gradually acquiring better language as I work to heal from things which (for lack of a more precise word) I previously identified as abuse. While abusive things were…
Rupture and Repair
The culmination of sleep deprivation, chronic pain, C- PTSD , sensory overload (when in the presence of most others) can fuck heavily with my resilience and discernment. Sometimes Often my…
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